had an interesting talk with my mum during dinner today, it was about boy-girl-relationship. the discussion was triggered by my cousin in china, whose results are on a decline due to his bgr. well, this is his last year of college (something like our J2) and the promotion exam (something like our A'level) is just few weeks away), my uncles and aunties are extremely worried about his future. He himself isn't confident of his results to0. At this point of time, where the exam still hasn't started yet, he has already been thinking of future alternatives if he fails to get to university.
when i heard this from my mum, i was pretty shocked. had been grown up with him since young, were kindergarden and primary one classmates together, he was always one of my main competitors in class because his results were so good that my mum always compared me to him in every tests and exams. Though we were rather competitive, we were not rivals. 我们是好兄弟。so it made me feel quite sad to hear that he has entangled himself in such a miserable state.
then my mum asked for my opinion of him, and it put me a bit off guard. so i told her my most honest opinion... as to what i replied and what we talked about later on, i shall not talk about it here la. but then after the discussion, i have discovered some new insights and revelations about bgr, maybe some inspirations as well. i think the discussion had reaffrimed my stand too...
anw, i think it is a very clever move of my mother in using my cousin to kind of 'lure' me into telling her my opinions on bgr. haha, but can understand la, she is just worried that i will not be matured enough to withstand certain temptations la... actually don't need to worry la, i can ensure that the girl that i am going to show her next time will confirm up to her standard one, maybe will exceed her expectations. as for my dad, who always teaches me how to analyse women based on their looks and behaviours, teaches me which type of women i should look for, i think his expecations of his son-in-law is higher than my mum. but then, i am confident too that he will be proud of his son for being able to get an extremely good wife and son-in-law.
lol.